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Wellismo represents the other side of gay culture: inner strength, vulnerability, authenticity, courage, and love.

Wellismo Core Values

Authenticity

Being more of who you are, and living in integrity with your core values.

Courage

Willingness to be vulnerable and take risks, even when it feels scary.

Empowerment

Owning your personal power and free will to make choices that serve you.

Joy

Exuding a zest for life by acknowledging it is a precious gift worth celebrating.

Kindness

Leaving a positive impact on the world by showing respect and compassion for humanity.

Wisdom

Maintaining a lifelong commitment to learning, growth, and self-discovery.

Wellismo Coaching

Gay culture can be a hostile environment in which to thrive. Gay and bisexual men suffer from unique challenges that impact our physical, mental, and emotional health. I founded Wellismo in 2019 as a way to share my message of wellness in a culture that is a minefield of emotional and mental pitfalls in the form of unrealistic body standards, online dating, substance abuse, and rampant loneliness – to name a few.

Many of us are juggling a career, active social life, fitness goals, and a love life. Trying to keep it all together is exhausting. Over time, this lifestyle routinizes stress and anxiety to the point that a latent sense of dissatisfaction becomes the new normal. It isn’t supposed to be that way and Wellismo is the antidote.

Wellismo represents the other side of gay culture: inner strength, authenticity, vulnerability, courage, and love.

As a certified life & wellness coach, I work with clients of all sexes and sexual preferences, but my specialty is helping gay men develop authentic self-confidence. My own experience in the gay community provides valuable insight into the unique social and cultural context of the gay man’s journey.

In addition to 1-on-1 private coaching, I lead group workshops and have an independent study online course outlining the foundational skills of connection.

Wellismo Blog

The blog is divided into three sections:

    • Mind: how we think, how we feel, and what we do. When we learn to manage our minds, we super-charge our ability to create and live our best lives. This is where I share my favourite techniques on how to manage your mindset to achieve your goals.
    • Sexuality: how we experience of sex and sexuality can provide of the most valuable lessons about ourselves. I share a lot of my personal experience here, so this content can get raw and go deep.
    • Soul: the connection to a something greater than ourselves. Call it what you want: The Universe, God, Source Energy, Spirit, Higher Power, The Divine, or Soul. When I developed a deeper connection to this energy, my experience of life flourished exponentially. I want to share the lessons I’ve learned this ongoing journey with you.

Most recent posts:

Seasons of the Soul

Let's talk about rhythm,  The Earth orbits around the sun, the moon travels around the Earth, the Earth completes a rotation every 24 hours, seasons change, tides come and go, day turn into night and back into day. ...

Messy Healing

In Week 3 of the Shamelessly Gay Men's Group we covered the topic of internalized homophobia.  This is not an easy topic.  Confronting your own homophobic thoughts and attitudes can be quite jarring, especially if you are an out and proud member of the LGBTQ+....

7 Films That Will Ignite Your Inner Activist

If I was born 20 years earlier, I probably wouldn't have made it to my 30th birthday.  The impact of HIV and AIDS on the gay community cannot be understated. Even today, with the incredible advancements made for HIV treatment and prevention, the impact of this...

Life Coaching for Gay Men

A gay life coach provides a supportive, non-judgmental space for LGBTQ+ clients to work towards creating a more fulfilling and authentic life.

5 Reasons You Don’t Ask For What You Want

Wouldn't it be great if you never had to ask for what you want? Imagine if everyone in your life could anticipate your every desire, saving you the hassle of having to ask. Unfortunately, for a lot of people, the simple matter of asking creates an inner...

Bathhouse Basics

The gay bathhouse experience is a staple of gay culture that has survived police raids, AIDS, and the emergence of online dating and apps. Through the times, bathhouses have remained true to their roots: they are places where men can have casual sex with men,...

12 Questions to Ask Before Starting a Relationship

Photo by Ketut Subiyanto from Pexels Often, the relationship questions we tend to ask are about appearance or personality. While that is important to an extent, there is a treasure trove of valuable information stored deep within ourselves. Only well-crafted questions...

Jealousy vs. Envy (and what to do about it)

Jealousy and envy often get mixed up because they feel similarly awful. Let's dissect the difference between jealousy and envy. A few years ago when I started Wellismo, I stumbled upon a video of a young man on Instagram with genuine eyes and a soothing voice talking...

The Wisdom of Regret

Have you ever said or done something in a fit of anger and immediately regretted it? Have you ever thought "I wish I had taken that chance when I had it?" Both of these are examples of REGRET. Regret is truly nasty feeling, and often comes with a side of shame...

Pride Is For You

Pride is a celebration of community, diversity, and inclusion for the LGBTQ2+ community and our allies. But a lot of groups feel left out. This is an ode to those people: Pride is for the survivors the plague who feel invisible to an entire generation of men who will...

What to Do About Your Blind Spot

You have a blind spot. Psychologically speaking, a blind spot is an unseen mental obstacle. Unlike physical blind spots, this one is in the abyss of your deep inner world. Even the most self-aware among us cannot see their own blind spots. You don't know what you...

3 Powerful Coaching Questions

Part of my job as a coach is to ask powerful questions to help clients discover themselves and reveal truths that they may not be aware of. Today I want to share 3 of these questions with you so that you can utilize them on your own path of self-discovery. 1. Why?...

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