What is Coaching?
Working with a coach builds the bridge from where you are today to where you want to be tomorrow. Coaching develops the mental and emotional skills you need to live a life that feels authentic to who you are so that you can have fun achieving your personal and professional goals.
The life you want is not only possible, but it’s closer than you think.
The moment you decide to do something different, it’s going to be uncomfortable, difficult, and a little scary. Some people will use this as a reason to quit and go back to sitting on the sidelines of their life.
But working with a coach helps you see through this mental clutter and emotional turmoil. A coach keeps you accountable to moving forward toward your future.
As your coach, it is my mission to help you see your world differently. Because when you see your world differently, you show up with more confidence that is a natural byproduct of being more attuned to your own needs, desires, and personal core values.
Coaching Style
I am a guide, not a guru. By asking powerful questions, I help you reveal your blind spots, and offer a fresh perspective that you haven’t considered before. I tailor my approach to your individual needs, but at the core, my style is:
Coaching can also be light, fun, and engaging. I bring a balance of warmth and humor to our sessions, sharing my own experiences to offer insights and help you navigate your own challenges with a fresh perspective.
What makes Wellismo different
At Wellismo, we do things differently. We keep it simple with real, practical coaching that challenges you to grow. Though a collaborative, solution-focused approach, we’ll find strategies that work for you and equip you with tools you’ll use long after our sessions end.
What You Get
⭐️ 3 or 6 months of personal, confidential 1-on-1 coaching
⭐️ Text/DM support in between sessions
⭐️ Customized coaching tools tailored to your needs
⭐️ Access to a private Facebook community of over 6,000 men
⭐️ Session notes accessible to you at any time
⭐️ Weekly action items & accountability check-ins
⭐️ Independent study materials to complement your learning and development
⭐️ VIP rates for Wellismo workshops and courses
Fun, Engaging, & No-BS
No fluff, no beating around the bush— just real talk and real results. We focus on causes, not just symptoms. We challenge you to think beyond your limiting beliefs, face your fears, and take action toward building a life that’s truly yours.
Life is serious, but that doesn’t mean it has to feel heavy. Our coaching is engaging, interactive, and even fun. Whether we’re tackling tough topics or celebrating wins, we’ll enjoy the journey together. Coaching should feel empowering, not like a test you have to pass.
Curated for Gay Men
This isn’t generic coaching or fluffy do-it-yourself social media stuff. Our tools and techniques are designed by gay men, for gay men. You’ll be supported by a coach who know the nuances of gay life, has been there in every moment, every exploration, every new opportunity, every possible decision.
Nothing is taboo. There’s no need to edit yourself, or be anything other than who you are now —so we can get to where you want to be. Here, you’ll feel seen and understood.
Ready to take the first step? Book a free, 60-minute discovery coaching session with me. No strings attached. 👇
From creative artists, to I.T. managers, meditation teachers, students, hotel admins, and so much more —Michael is here for you.
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FAQ
Private coaching gives you time to dive into what matters most to you, in any moment. During private coaching we have 1-on-1 virtual sessions via Zoom. Think of these sessions as a collaboration, we will work together to uncover your deepest needs, and I’ll supply personalized tools and tactics to support you along the way. Sessions last up to 60 minutes and are typically scheduled weekly, or bi-weekly, depending on your specific needs.
No. I will work with anyone as long as we’re a good fit for each other. We determine this together during your discovery call where we get to know each other. Think of it like a first date without the awkward parts.
Yes. I am certified with the International Association of Wellness Professionals (IAWP). The IAWP Wellness Coach Certification program is a globally-recognized program CCE accredited through the International Coaching Federation (ICF). In addition, I have accreditations from the American Association of Drugless Practitioners (AADP), the Canadian Health Coach Alliance, the Canadian Association for Integrative Nutrition and are approved by the UK Health Coach Association. And finally, I am certified in The Life Coach School Tools Certification Program.
Coaching and therapy both deal with mental health and our work can overlap. Check out this post for an in-depth explanation.
Coaching is an action-oriented, solution-focused approach to overcoming a challenge or achieving a result in your life. Therapists tend to work with more severe issues to diagnose and prescribe treatment, whereas coaches do not. If our sessions determine that you would be better suited for therapy, I will gladly refer you to some of my favourite LGBTQ+ affirmative mental health care providers.
Keep in mind that you can work with both a coach and a therapist. When it comes to your mental health, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. If you’re unsure what you need, our discovery call will help me better understand your challenge so that I can guide you in the right direction.
All of my programs offer discounts for paying in full up front. If we determine that we are a good fit for each other, but cost is an issue for you, we can discuss payment options prior to onboarding.
For students, I offer a student discount with a valid Student ID.
If you have a challenge in your life that you can’t seem to overcome, coaching is right for you.
If you’re unsure, we will talk it out during our discovery call. I will be able to better understand your challenge and whether I am best suited to help you. If your situation would be better handled by another coach or mental health professional, I will be happy to refer you.
That is entirely up to you. Just like a fitness coach doesn’t lift the weights for you, I cannot do the work for you. I will give you all the tools and resources at my disposal to help you achieve your goals, but I cannot use them for you.
If you’re committed to taking responsibility for your results, and you’re willing to learn and grow, you will feel excited and motivated after just one session. From there, anything is possible.
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