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Shamelessly Gay Video Series

Description: 5-part video series delivers one 5-minute video a day for 5 days, giving you the tools, language, and perspective you need to better understand yourself, queer culture, and how to feel more comfortable in your own skin

Shamelessly Gay and Authentically You

10 life skills for the empowered gay man. The building blocks of genuine self-confidence for gay men who want to be more of who they really are.

Newly out?
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Your starting point for navigating gay life with confidence. Inside includes everything from coming out and finding your community to understanding queer culture and accessing essential resources.

12 Journal Prompts for Relationships

Whether you’re single or attached, answering these questions will help you discover more of who you are in the context of relationships with others.

Wellismo Weekly

A weekly newsletter with my most personal stories, best coaching tips, and exclusive subscriber-only offers. 

Pillow Talk

Monthly musings on all things sensual, seductive, and sexy. Reader discretion is advised.

36 Ways to Build Intimacy – Besides Sex

Ideas you can implement today that covers emotional, experiential, intellectual, and of course, physical intimacy.