“I Don’t Need Anyone”: Why Gay Men Struggle to Let Someone In
In this episode, we explore why many gay men struggle to let others in, balancing independence, hyper-independence, and interdependence. Matt and Michael…
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a provocative podcast hosted by coach Michael DiIorio, Matt Landsiedel, and a wide range of special guests.
Together, we explore confidence, relationships, identity, sexuality, and emotional wellbeing through the lens of gay men. Expect honest conversations that are thought-provoking, entertaining, and sometimes a little triggering.
New conversations released every two weeks.
Latest Episodes
Gay–Straight Bromance: Why We’re Drawn to Each Other
In this episode, we explore the unique bond between gay and straight men and why these friendships often feel so natural, emotionally…
How To Deal With Haters (Without Getting Defensive)
In this episode, we explore what’s really behind hate — from obvious criticism to subtle judgment in everyday life. Michael and Matt…
Busy, Stimulated, and Disconnected: Gay Men & Escapism
In this episode, we explore how modern life makes it easy to stay constantly busy, stimulated, and subtly disconnected. From social plans…
Let’s Play! When Did Life Stop Being Fun?
In this episode, Michael, Matt, and Reno explore the decline of playfulness in adulthood. They discuss how shame, self-consciousness, and societal pressures…
Masc for Masc: Preference or Internalized Homophobia?
In this episode, Michael, Matt, and Reno dive into the complex conversation around ‘masc for masc’ preferences. They unpack how social conditioning…
Flakey Gays: Why is Follow-Through So Hard?
In this episode, we explore why flakiness has become so common in modern gay culture—from canceled plans to vague communication and disappearing…
Is Being Gay Your Entire Identity? (The Hidden Cost of Over-Identification)
In this episode, we explore what it really means to identify as gay — and when healthy pride can quietly turn into…
Is Romance Dead in Gay Culture?
In this episode, we explore whether romance still has a place in modern gay dating. In a culture shaped by swipes, situationships,…
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