300 Episodes Later: Growing, Changing & Still Figuring It Out
In this special 300th episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, Matt, Michael, and Reno reunite to reflect on six years of conversations,…
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a provocative podcast hosted by coach Michael DiIorio, Matt Landsiedel, and a wide range of special guests.
Together, we explore confidence, relationships, identity, sexuality, and emotional wellbeing through the lens of gay men. Expect honest conversations that are thought-provoking, entertaining, and sometimes a little triggering.
New conversations released every two weeks.
Latest Episodes
The Gay Man’s Healing Journey: What Is The Inner Work And How Do We Actually Do It
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Why Bad Boys Feel So Good
In this episode, we explore why ‘bad boys’ can feel so magnetic and why intensity is often mistaken for attraction. Matt, Michael,…
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From Validation-Seeking to Self-Trust
In this episode, we explore the journey from seeking external validation to building genuine self-trust. Matt, Michael, and Reno unpack how approval-seeking,…
When Feeling Bad Is Good For You
In this episode, Michael and Matt explore why feeling bad isn’t a flaw—it’s a skill. They unpack how sitting with difficult emotions,…
Liked by Everyone, Chosen by No One: The Nice Guy Trap
In this episode, Matt, Michael, and Reno explore why being the “nice guy” can backfire in dating and relationships. They unpack the…
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