Liked by Everyone, Chosen by No One: The Nice Guy Trap
In this episode, Matt, Michael, and Reno explore why being the “nice guy” can backfire in dating and relationships. They unpack the…
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a provocative podcast hosted by coach Michael DiIorio, Matt Landsiedel, and a wide range of special guests.
Together, we explore confidence, relationships, identity, sexuality, and emotional wellbeing through the lens of gay men. Expect honest conversations that are thought-provoking, entertaining, and sometimes a little triggering.
New conversations released every two weeks.
Latest Episodes
How to Elevate Your Hookups
In this episode, Matt and Michael explore how hookups can go beyond casual encounters to become spaces of honesty, awareness, and real…
The Daddy Issue: Our Relationships With Our Dads
In this episode, we explore the complex and often unspoken relationships gay men have with their fathers. Matt, Michael, and Reno discuss…
“I Don’t Need Anyone”: Why Gay Men Struggle to Let Someone In
In this episode, we explore why many gay men struggle to let others in, balancing independence, hyper-independence, and interdependence. Matt and Michael…
Gay–Straight Bromance: Why We’re Drawn to Each Other
In this episode, we explore the unique bond between gay and straight men and why these friendships often feel so natural, emotionally…
How To Deal With Haters (Without Getting Defensive)
In this episode, we explore what’s really behind hate — from obvious criticism to subtle judgment in everyday life. Michael and Matt…
Busy, Stimulated, and Disconnected: Gay Men & Escapism
In this episode, we explore how modern life makes it easy to stay constantly busy, stimulated, and subtly disconnected. From social plans…
Let’s Play! When Did Life Stop Being Fun?
In this episode, Michael, Matt, and Reno explore the decline of playfulness in adulthood. They discuss how shame, self-consciousness, and societal pressures…
Masc for Masc: Preference or Internalized Homophobia?
In this episode, Michael, Matt, and Reno dive into the complex conversation around ‘masc for masc’ preferences. They unpack how social conditioning…
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