Why So Many “Confident” Guys Are Secretly Insecure
In this episode, we explore why so many gay men who appear confident are actually grappling with insecurity. Michael and Matt break…
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a provocative podcast hosted by coach Michael DiIorio, Matt Landsiedel, and a wide range of special guests.
Together, we explore confidence, relationships, identity, sexuality, and emotional wellbeing through the lens of gay men. Expect honest conversations that are thought-provoking, entertaining, and sometimes a little triggering.
New conversations released every two weeks.
Latest Episodes
The Slow Build in Romantic Relationships
In this episode, we dive into the truth behind the ‘slow build’ in relationships—why moving fast can feel so exciting and what…
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
In this episode, we explore why the TV show Heated Rivalry has sparked so much conversation among gay men. Rather than simply…
Will I Be Single Forever?
In this episode, we explore the fear many gay men carry of being single forever. We unpack where this belief comes from,…
How to Build Unshakeable Confidence
In this episode, we break down what real, unshakeable confidence actually is not performative bravado, but the grounded self-trust that comes from…
Standards vs. Boundaries in Dating
In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest dating myths gay men love to repeat: “My standards are too high.”…
Single and Ready to Mingle
In this episode, we get honest about being single and truly ready to date again. From navigating dating apps and flirting to…
When Attraction Fades
In this episode, we explore why attraction naturally fades in long-term relationships and why that doesn’t mean something is wrong. We talk…
What’s Really Sexy (and Nobody Talks About It)
In this episode, we challenge narrow ideas of attraction and celebrate what’s actually sexy confidence, kindness, connection, and all the real traits…
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