How to Build Unshakeable Confidence
In this episode, we break down what real, unshakeable confidence actually is not performative bravado, but the grounded self-trust that comes from…
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a provocative podcast hosted by coach Michael DiIorio, Matt Landsiedel, and a wide range of special guests.
Together, we explore confidence, relationships, identity, sexuality, and emotional wellbeing through the lens of gay men. Expect honest conversations that are thought-provoking, entertaining, and sometimes a little triggering.
New conversations released every two weeks.
Latest Episodes
Standards vs. Boundaries in Dating
In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest dating myths gay men love to repeat: “My standards are too high.”…
Single and Ready to Mingle
In this episode, we get honest about being single and truly ready to date again. From navigating dating apps and flirting to…
When Attraction Fades
In this episode, we explore why attraction naturally fades in long-term relationships and why that doesn’t mean something is wrong. We talk…
What’s Really Sexy (and Nobody Talks About It)
In this episode, we challenge narrow ideas of attraction and celebrate what’s actually sexy confidence, kindness, connection, and all the real traits…
How to Thrive in the Culture of Body Perfection
In this episode, we explore the pressure gay men face to achieve the ‘perfect’ body and the hidden emotional cost behind it.…
Radical Honesty: Letting Yourself Be Known
In this episode, we explore the deeper meaning of radical honesty — not blunt harshness, but the vulnerable kind that lets you…
Twinks, Jocks, and Bears, Oh My! The Obsession with Gay Labels
In this episode, we explore the hilarious, complicated, and culturally iconic world of gay labels—from twinks and jocks to bears, daddies, otters,…
The Slow Fade: When We Ghost Without Ghosting
The Slow Fade: When We Ghost Without Ghosting explores the subtle, quiet distancing that happens when relationships fizzle without a formal ending.…
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