Do you ever find yourself only chasing a certain type? Straight guys.Black guys.Daddies. Twinks. Jocks. Bears.Emotionally unavailable “maybe he’s curious” masc bros? If you notice trends and patterns of the types […]
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Does this sound familiar? If you’re nodding along… I totally get it. This, my friend, is called a shame spiral. Let’s break it down: The 5 Stages of a Shame Spiral 1.
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Recently, I shared how I’d taken a hiatus from Grindr and encouraged you to step away from any app that felt like it was draining your time and energy. The
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Once I made it my goal to take a hiatus from Grindr. I felt it had stopped being useful and was draining too much of my time. 10 days in,
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I’ve talked about Bathhouse Basics before… but I want to fill you in on my *new* fave bathhouse/gay sauna – located in Munich. I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world (I
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Believe it or not, one of the greatest coincidences of my life is that I actually came out for the first time on National Coming Out Day in 2002. Of
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If I was born 20 years earlier, I probably wouldn’t have made it to my 30th birthday. The impact of HIV and AIDS on the gay community cannot be understated.
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A gay life coach provides a supportive, non-judgmental space for LGBTQ+ clients to work towards creating a more fulfilling and authentic life.
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The gay bathhouse experience is a staple of gay culture that has survived police raids, AIDS, and the emergence of online dating and apps. Through the times, bathhouses have remained
