Coming Out Later in Life as a Gay Man
Coming out later in life is different. It is not the same as coming out in your teens, 20s, or even 30s. When you come out as gay in your […]
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Is It Fetishizing or Just a Preference?
Do you ever find yourself only chasing a certain type? Straight guys.Black guys.Daddies. Twinks. Jocks. Bears.Emotionally unavailable “maybe he’s curious” masc bros? If you notice trends and patterns of the types
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Anatomy of a Shame Spiral (And How To Break It)
Does this sound familiar? If you’re nodding along… I totally get it. This, my friend, is called a shame spiral. Let’s break it down: The 5 Stages of a Shame Spiral 1.
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No Regrets: a Simplified Decision-Making Process
It’s a powerful thing to be able to naturally see both sides of everything. The pros and the cons. The potential gains and the possible regrets. Yes, it’s a gift to see all the
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From FOMO to JOMO: Finding Joy in Missing Out
Recently, I shared how I’d taken a hiatus from Grindr and encouraged you to step away from any app that felt like it was draining your time and energy. The
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10 days off Grindr: The app-free challenge
Once I made it my goal to take a hiatus from Grindr. I felt it had stopped being useful and was draining too much of my time. 10 days in,
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Inside the Bathhouse: My time at the famous Deutsche
I’ve talked about Bathhouse Basics before… but I want to fill you in on my *new* fave bathhouse/gay sauna – located in Munich. I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world (I
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Tales from Inside the Closet: I came out on National Coming Out Day
Believe it or not, one of the greatest coincidences of my life is that I actually came out for the first time on National Coming Out Day in 2002. Of
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7 Films That Will Ignite Your Inner Activist
If I was born 20 years earlier, I probably wouldn’t have made it to my 30th birthday. The impact of HIV and AIDS on the gay community cannot be understated.
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