The Case For and Against Casual Sex
Over the course of history, gay men have made an art form of seeking and engaging in casual sex. Also known as NSA (no strings attached), casual sex comes in
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Lean into the Darkness: 4 stages of a dark night of the soul
The unexpected death of a loved one. A terminal diagnosis. Losing your job and source of livelihood. A painful relationship breakdown. Dark periods in our lives can manifest at any
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Self-Doubt: The Key to Self-Confidence
Self-confidence is sexy. Everyone wants to have more of it and we envy those who (we think) have more of it than we do. But not many people talk about
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3 Phrases We Need to Abolish
Have you ever tried to explain to your straight friends or family what NSA, PNP, BB bukkake is? They would probably be horrified (Google that at your own risk). Gay
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What is Wellismo?
I am the first to admit that I live in a bubble. To many outside the bubble I am the cliché white cis-gendered gay man, living the swingin’ downtown bachelor
It’s Official: Instagram is the New Grindr
Instagram is making Grindr irrelevant in 2019 Years ago I was dating someone who opened my eyes to the emergence of Instagram as a dating app. For the record, we
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3 Lessons the Steam Room Creepers Taught Me
The steam room can be an interesting place to practice mindfulness Anyone who enjoys the benefits of a good steam or sauna after a workout knows about the creepy men
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The Law of Rhythm: Everything Moves, Everything Changes
Nothing is permanent Nothing lasts forever. And that’s a good thing. The Law of Rhythm says that everything in the universe operates in cycles —patterns of rise and fall, in and out,
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The Law of Polarity: You Can’t Have One Without the Other
Everything has an opposite on the same continuum How would you know what heat is if you didn’t experience cold? How would you know the feeling of joy if you didn’t ever feel sadness? This is the
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