10 days off Grindr: The app-free challenge
Once I made it my goal to take a hiatus from Grindr. I felt it had stopped being useful and was draining too much of my time. 10 days in,
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The Drama Triangle: Which role are you playing?
Do you ever notice that you end up in recurring patterns in your relationships? The same conflicts seem to surface over and over and you end up playing the same role in
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Ask Yourself These Questions Before Starting a Relationship
Photo by Ketut Subiyanto from Pexels Often, the relationship questions we tend to ask are about appearance or personality. While that is important to an extent, there is a treasure
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Intimacy Is More Than Sex
Sex and intimacy are not the same thing. Intimacy is a feeling of closeness, familiarity, and a sense of mutual vulnerability. It is fundamental to our well being as social
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25 Ways to Say No
Saying no is hard for many of us. Often it’s because we don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings or we don’t feel we have a valid reason for saying no.
Overcoming Loneliness
I’ve struggled with loneliness for as long as I can remember. I was a quiet, shy kid who found it hard to connect with the other boys. As I got
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5 Reasons Why You’re Unlucky in Love
Spoiler alert: it has nothing to do with luck Traditional wisdom tells us that if you’re relatively attractive and have a charming personality, it should be easy enough to find
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