My Story
When I came out at the age of 19, I thought that the shame, secrets, and fear that plagued me during my teenage years would melt away. While it was
I’m giving it all away (even though they said it’s a bad idea…)
“Don’t show them your framework.” That’s what a lot of coaches and counselors in my industry say to me. “Make them need you,” they say. “If you give it away,
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Inside the Bathhouse: My time at the famous Deutsche
I’ve talked about Bathhouse Basics before… but I want to fill you in on my *new* fave bathhouse/gay sauna – located in Munich. I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world (I
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Seasons of the Soul
Let\’s talk about rhythm, The Earth orbits around the sun, the moon travels around the Earth, the Earth completes a rotation every 24 hours, seasons change, tides come and go,
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Messy Healing
In Week 3 of the Shamelessly Gay Men’s Group we covered the topic of internalized homophobia. This is not an easy topic. Confronting your own homophobic thoughts and attitudes can be quite
7 Films That Will Ignite Your Inner Activist
If I was born 20 years earlier, I probably wouldn’t have made it to my 30th birthday. The impact of HIV and AIDS on the gay community cannot be understated.
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Life Coaching for Gay Men
A gay life coach provides a supportive, non-judgmental space for LGBTQ+ clients to work towards creating a more fulfilling and authentic life.
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5 Reasons You Don’t Ask For What You Want
Wouldn’t it be great if you never had to ask for what you want? Imagine if everyone in your life could anticipate your every desire, saving you the hassle of
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Bathhouse Basics
The gay bathhouse experience is a staple of gay culture that has survived police raids, AIDS, and the emergence of online dating and apps. Through the times, bathhouses have remained